Soul Aligned Relationships

The most fulfilling relationships are where you experience soul alignment.

Connection that is not only physical, mental or emotional, but a meeting of soul energy where the core of two or more beings connects to evolve and share love with a common purpose.

This goes beyond the idea of soul mates as it’s commonly talked about.

For while we do consider ourselves soul mates of a kind, we see the term soul mate being used more often as a sort of commercialised spiritual fantasy, rather than a description of real soul connection.

For where the idea of soul mates can be often presented in a way that over-emphasises a sort of ego fulfilling wish list, the reality of soul alignment is about something much deeper.

Soul alignment is really the experience of connection to the core beauty of who you are in the reflection of another, doing the work of awakening together in vulnerable commitment to your highest purpose.

This is the relationship experience your soul will manifest for you if it’s what you’ve chosen, and choose to open up to it.

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You may feel called to experience more soul alignment in your relationships, whether in romantic relationship, friendship, creative/business relationship or otherwise.

And there are two fundamental mechanisms which will open this up for you, the more you understand them and apply them.

These are the mechanisms that were at work in our lives before we met. They are what allowed us to open up to the level of soul alignment we experienced when we connected, and are also what we’eve used to continue to deepen our relationship.

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The first mechanism is the developing of your inner connection to your soul energy.

For the more you consciously welcome the energy and feeling of your true soul joy, your love, power, passion and purpose to be within you, the more you’ll naturally attract and connect with relationships on that level.

There are many practices and approaches that can support this, but the simple truth is that you do need to live with connection to your soul inspiration and energy as a priority in order to actively invite soul alignment in your relationships.

In our case we both went through individual experiences where we deeply connected to our own soul alignment before we met, so when we connected physically we could both already feel the common soul presence in each other.

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The second mechanism is to release any layers of fear, unworthiness or conditions you’ve placed on actually being loved, connected and appreciated by others in your natural soul energy.

It’s very common for people to have taken on a lot of layers of negative beliefs and emotional patterns from childhood, and from living in societies which have generally been fearful and suppressive of authentic soul energy.

So it’s normal for this process of release and healing of these fears to take some time so your physical being can be in a state that’s truly open to deep and consistent soul-aligned connection.

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If you’ve already experienced some level of soul alignment in relationships for a period of time, but maybe it was only an experience of partial alignment or didn’t last for some reason, this is a positive sign of what’s possible for you. 

The way forward is always to keep using the two mechanisms to further develop your inner alignment, and you’ll keep becoming more open to relationships that are more fulfilling and connected.

It is very normal for people to manifest partially aligned relationships as opportunities and lessons on the soul journey.

For both of us our commitment to release the patterns which created the partial alignments in our previous relationships was absolutely necessary to be ready to meet each other, and we’re both very grateful for our previous relationship experiences which helped us on the path to where we are, even if they were difficult and painful at times.

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If you’re already in a relationship but you’re not experiencing the level of soul connection and alignment you desire, this is something you can potentially develop. 

There are some different approaches with nuances that may be best for different situations, but if we write about them here this blog will be way too long so we’ll save them for another article soon.

For now, we think it’s important to say that our own relationship has taken work! 

The perfect soul aligned relationship for your path isn’t necessarily one without challenge, for the soul is here to grow and evolve in service, not just stay the same.

But what we have had since we met, and what we wish for others for whom it is aligned, is a knowing that our connection and presence in each other's lives truly serves our highest loving purpose, and our deepest soul joy, individually and together.

If there are elements of this soul alignment you feel called to, we know without a doubt you can invite and connect with what and who most serves you, and who you can most be of service to.

It’s just a matter of applying the mechanisms, one day at a time, and in your time allowing your own soul energy to radiate and shine.




- Simon Wing-Lun